Sending good vibes to all of my trans comrades cat-trans

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      • BountifulEggnog [she/her]@hexbear.net
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        2 months ago

        So I really do feel that way, but Seryph made a good point and idk I felt weird cheems Having an actual cissie asking questions might make me feel weird. I already feel weird enough.

        But a “cis” person party-sicko

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          2 months ago

          I agree with Seryph wholeheartedly, I also wouldn’t want nosy cissies badgering our beloved babytrans cat-trans I like the idea of welcoming eggs too though, it’s a thing.

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              Uh just me I guess, personally I’m likely to field dumb questions and unload gender theory on people, but was thinking about safe space aspects and that’s what sprung to mind first

              I’m sorry

              • Uh just me I guess, personally I’m likely to field dumb questions and unload gender theory on people

                Kinda wish there was an AskTransgender thread or something that cissies could be pushed into and we could play with when we’re bored.

              • 🎀 Seryph (She/Her)@lemmygrad.ml
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                Ash I wasn’t mad just clarifying.

                Safe space aspects is what I was thinking about so you were right there, and obviously babytrans concerns are a part of that. I just mean that I was thinking about my personal comfort in this place as a safe space and wanting to protect that. I don’t want cis people who aren’t questioning to read some of the personal stuff I post here, it feels like a huge violation, like if someone read my diary. And I have a bunch of other smaller discomforts too.

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                  2 months ago

                  okay…

                  well I know what thats like, I had that guy on a thread who tried blancharding me, that was extremely funny

                  if it were possible it’d probably be best to stop cis from even lurking, would be nice but not feasible really, we should just kill cis instead

                  • 🎀 Seryph (She/Her)@lemmygrad.ml
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                    I’m sorry if I made you feel shit with that initial reply, Ash, I could have worded it much better, that was my bad.

                    And yeah, my actual honest feelings are that I don’t want cis people even lurking here if they aren’t doing it for questioning. But obviously that’s not exactly feasible to moderate. I was also trying to make my initial reply a little more civil to not possibly deter an actual egg, hence the “lurk if you must” bit being there even if I felt like shit while typing it.

                    And I agree, we should. lenin shotgun

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      Ever heard of the “[deleted]” proverb?