I’ve known (emphasis on the known) a fare few guys who toe’d the incel line if not went all in.
All of them were cute, not one of them was physically undateable like that is even the most important thing (any guys reading its really 100% not). One was even like the hottest guy in our wider group.
All of them were fucking weird about women and blamed women for only liking dickhead guys and not nice guys like them.
It was 100% a them problem.
If they didn’t have too high standards and rejected any girls who did look past their bs, they would go for people already taken and it’s like WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!
This has been my experience. I actually haven’t met an incel who looks as bad as they seem to think they look in order to be undateable, but the personal behaviour and attitudes of the person were not good.
The world of dating is too dangerous for anyone not cis het male and white and who the hell would risk their safety and take a chance on someone who blatantly blames women for their woes when even the more “normal” ones can pop off.
I’ve known (emphasis on the known) a fare few guys who toe’d the incel line if not went all in.
All of them were cute, not one of them was physically undateable like that is even the most important thing (any guys reading its really 100% not). One was even like the hottest guy in our wider group.
All of them were fucking weird about women and blamed women for only liking dickhead guys and not nice guys like them.
It was 100% a them problem.
If they didn’t have too high standards and rejected any girls who did look past their bs, they would go for people already taken and it’s like WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!
This has been my experience. I actually haven’t met an incel who looks as bad as they seem to think they look in order to be undateable, but the personal behaviour and attitudes of the person were not good.
The world of dating is too dangerous for anyone not cis het male and white and who the hell would risk their safety and take a chance on someone who blatantly blames women for their woes when even the more “normal” ones can pop off.
It’s just not worth it ever.