This has been my experience. I actually haven’t met an incel who looks as bad as they seem to think they look in order to be undateable, but the personal behaviour and attitudes of the person were not good.
The world of dating is too dangerous for anyone not cis het male and white and who the hell would risk their safety and take a chance on someone who blatantly blames women for their woes when even the more “normal” ones can pop off.
This has been my experience. I actually haven’t met an incel who looks as bad as they seem to think they look in order to be undateable, but the personal behaviour and attitudes of the person were not good.
The world of dating is too dangerous for anyone not cis het male and white and who the hell would risk their safety and take a chance on someone who blatantly blames women for their woes when even the more “normal” ones can pop off.
It’s just not worth it ever.