i somehow just got a date with a cute boy 
and i dont know how to do this well. it’s in a week and i’m stressing so much because he’s so sweet and i can’t fumble this. I would never forgive myself. I need tips 
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not advising this but what i do is get blackout drunk and it normally goes pretty well
He’s as nervous and hopeful as you are. But humour, respect, communication, honesty, and compassion will go a long way. When in doubt, just take a moment and breathe deep.
you got this
How did you guys meet each other? (DO NOT REVEAL PERSONAL INFORMATION)
I’m asking because I genuinely don’t know how to even meet people to ask out.
Not OP, but I recently met a guy while clubbing with my friend. Well the guy is a friend of the friend I went with, but I had never expected that to happen. It won’t work out for various reasons, but yeah as cliche as it sounds, going new places or meeting friends of friends are good options. I’ve also met many cool people while participating in various clubs and organizations at my university.
“He’s so sweet” thats probably because he likes you, man. Think, “he wants to be here too” because he does. Don’t worry about it just have a good time (easier said than done I know).
A lull in the conversation doesn’t necessarily mean it’s going badly, so don’t get worried when it happens.
thank you! i’ll keep that in mind
Let us know if you’re really the
of the relationship or if you find out you’re a freaky little 
with this guyi’m sure you didn’t know, so i don’t really blame you, but we are both minors.
I’m sorry if I said something that made you feel uncomfortable comrade. I didn’t mean to
trueanon rule: be normal
Death to America
i’ll never forget this rule, thank you
So idk where you live but I used to live in a city with a free art museum that was also near a really cute dive bar and that combo used to be my go to first date idea and got me laid like 6 times.
wait that would be perfect! i already have a date planned but i can hunt for something for the second date
lol my last partner got mad when I told them I had taken other people on that same first date. Look sorry I have a go to first date to impress people!
Show them respect and attention
Don’t change yourself to earn theirs
Even if it doesn’t work out you’ll learn more about dating and relationships for the futureEasier said than done, but lower expectations and less pressure on yourself will help.
Do not: Infodump about obscure leftist schisms in the 20th century which led to collapses which are roots of some of today’s problems
Do: Infodump about obscure Hollywood actors that became president of the USA which is the root of most of today’s problems
but but but i wanted to talk about the sino-albanian split
If you DM me I’ll send you the Chapo book of pickup Lines. Say as many of them as you can as fast as you can. Don’t stop for any reason.
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I genuinely wish I could transfer the amount of rizz I have to other people.
i don’t know why, but when it comes to men my rizz is next-level. comparatively, of course. i would still say yes to the angel rizz transfer program
same fr, I sure ain’t using it lol
Maybe if I start beanis posting I will get rizz…
Beanisposting is a lifestyle commitment. It’s not something you just pick up on a whim one evening.
“Just be yourself” is corny advice, but it’s also true. Even if you’re weird there’s no point in covering it up because if it works out you’ll just have to keep doing it for the rest of the relationship, which doesn’t sound fun. If you’ve got nerves, just remember your manners, try to listen more than you talk, and have some questions in mind for changing the subject if the conversation seems to veer off track or hit a lull. Asking follow-up questions is a good way to keep the conversation going and not something that people always remember to do, so it’ll make you more memorable.
Best of luck! Hope it goes well
Even if you’re weird there’s no point in covering it up because if it works out you’ll just have to keep doing it for the rest of the relationship, which doesn’t sound fun.
thank you! this is my first real date and i’m so excited
Yer gonna do amazing! He’s probably as nervous as you are uwu
No prob! Have a good time!
Happy for you!
by not thinking that way, tbh. love who you are and remember that you’re assessing whether you like him as much as vice versa. you are a fucking stud deserving of love, just go in trying to have a cool ass fun time with a new person and let things progress as they are meant to. i’m sure he’s got a lot of good qualities that make you want to impress him, but remebmer that you do too
thank you!
Make sure you talk a lot about hexbear memes, tell him all about the emoji language. That’s a sure sign of normality
Accuse other people in the room of being libs. Accuse yourself of being a lib. But especially accuse him of being a lib for agreeing to go on a date with a lib.
