I don’t want to be intrusive, so what is a good “pickup line” to have? Especially relevant for lesbians as this isn’t necessarily a queer orgy but i’m sure there will be some bi or lesbians there! Also, what is a good way to turn someone down nicely?
I mean, you have to be pretty comfortable and somewhat casual in an orgy - it isn’t like someone is going to tip their top hat and say “Perchance, madame, may I gaze upon you from below whilst delivering my tongue?”
I mean, maybe someone would, but it would be with someone they know and kind of jokey about it.
But this:
You might not, but some do behave that way. Its gross when it happens, and generally speaking, that person wouldn’t be invited back (as long as the person running the event is made aware).
So really, yeah, you’ll need to be comfortably casual. You’re going to have sex with them, not ask them to take you to prom first.
Thanks! Actually kind of scared about a guy getting pushy or not asking before doing, but I did my best to find a place that I believe to be safe.
No idea where you’re going, but based on the comment I’m going to assume a swinger club or similar.
Usually there will be a spot where everyone lounges around, gets to know each other, maybe plays some party games of sorts. Then a bit into the event, more or less doors open elsewhere for the fun.
Get to know people during the first part will make the second part that much easier.
Thanks! 💞