I don’t want to be intrusive, so what is a good “pickup line” to have? Especially relevant for lesbians as this isn’t necessarily a queer orgy but i’m sure there will be some bi or lesbians there! Also, what is a good way to turn someone down nicely?
No idea where you’re going, but based on the comment I’m going to assume a swinger club or similar.
Usually there will be a spot where everyone lounges around, gets to know each other, maybe plays some party games of sorts. Then a bit into the event, more or less doors open elsewhere for the fun.
Get to know people during the first part will make the second part that much easier.
Thanks! 💞