i do, as i’ve seen so many people in progressive-leaning spaces online legit say that “if you have difficulties socializing, maybe you’re just a horrible person”
Yeah, and ironically it seems to be a specifically online thing. The comrades in my org know I’m autistic, know I struggle socially, and they’ve been wonderfully accommodating.
“if you have difficulties socializing, maybe you’re just a horrible person”
I’ve seen that quite a bit, especially when it comes to the realm of dating.
But enjoying solitary things is counterrevolutionairy is not something I’ve really seen on here and I think sometbing might be lost in translation. But hey, you’re probably right!
Yeah, I don’t date because I struggle with horrible social anxiety and a truly brutal level of self-loathing. Trying to convince me that actually maybe everyone really does hate me and for good reason, too, isn’t particularly kind OR accurate.
i do, as i’ve seen so many people in progressive-leaning spaces online legit say that “if you have difficulties socializing, maybe you’re just a horrible person”
Yeah, and ironically it seems to be a specifically online thing. The comrades in my org know I’m autistic, know I struggle socially, and they’ve been wonderfully accommodating.
I’ve seen that quite a bit, especially when it comes to the realm of dating.
But enjoying solitary things is counterrevolutionairy is not something I’ve really seen on here and I think sometbing might be lost in translation. But hey, you’re probably right!
The dating stuff genuinely upsets me. Like yea I guess I’m shit because no one loves me :/ thanks guys
Yeah, I don’t date because I struggle with horrible social anxiety and a truly brutal level of self-loathing. Trying to convince me that actually maybe everyone really does hate me and for good reason, too, isn’t particularly kind OR accurate.
I love you comrade, you’re wonderful, look after yourself for me, if you cant do it for yourself today
Thank you <3 I will.
I think we need a term for it. Social Calvinism?