beleza pura

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Cake day: September 5th, 2024

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  • how much do you think chasing the web “standards” set by one of the largest companies on the planet without falling behind costs? ever wonder why nobody else has been able to keep up with chrome? also, do you think it’s not important to ensure web standards are open and having the lawyers and lobbyists to prevent web standards to go to shit? do you think the only important thing is the actual application? firefox doesn’t in a vacuum. if mozilla was just a bunch of computer nerds coding very hard to make a browser, it would’ve gone bankrupt and firefox would’ve died ages ago

    i’m not even saying mozilla isn’t doing anything stupid, it’s just that it frustrates me how computer nerds always think the coding is the only thing that matters in a software project





  • insults can teach shame when necessary. they can also communicate when you’re sharing an opinion that might make people upset and make you mindful of it next time you decide to share your thoughts. in any case, there’s a very relevant difference between a response that communicates “i disagree and here’s why” and a response that communicates “wtf bro”, and that’s not simply self-indulgence

    edit: in the case of this thread specifically, the insult is well earned because the post is typical of a gringo gringoing and not being able to accept all the comfort and benefits they’re granted for being gringo. it’s like shaking the poster back to reality and making it clear his line of reasoning is not just incorrect, but also ridiculous






  • it is really concerning to see most commenters taking the claim that autistic people are more likely to commit crime at face value, not only doing so without any data to back it up, but also unaware (or willfully ignorant) that the data says otherwise: autistic people are more likely to be victims of violent crime than allistic people. this is a dangerous narrative fueled by preexisting hatred of neurodivergent people that only serves to further marginalize us.

    this kind of narrative is unfortunately the expected anywhere else, but seeing it play out in a forum specifically about autism is particularly upsetting. if you’re neurotypical and you’re spreading this here, kindly go fuck yourself (also go look for actual data, not biased anecdotes by sensationalist media); if you’re autistic, though, please please please do not believe this shit, you are the vulnerable side of autism, not the people around you.










  • beleza puratoAuDHD@lemmy.worldVent
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    13 days ago

    careful! unless i’m absolutely confident i can trust my employer, i wouldn’t trust completely opening up to them. maybe i’d talk to coworkers i trust before i make a decision to open up, and even then, i would just deliver enough information to make them feel some sympathy and maybe take it easier with me