gingerbrat [she/her]

flag-bi-pride …also, I like bad puns

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Cake day: December 23rd, 2024

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  • I’m glad there are some souls around the globe that have gotten you this far, and I can relate a lot to that sentiment. While you may be alone in person, there’s almost always someone who’s just a typed message away, and is actually willing to listen (and that includes me, if you want to).

    However, I will never understand people abandoning their friends over becoming sick. If anything, this only proves the lack of depth to their side of the friendship, and that’s simply disgusting. Friends don’t leave you hanging just because “you’re no fun to hang around anymore”. Bullshit, when a friend gets sick, you don’t abandon them??? I could scream about this for hours, but I’ll shorten it to: You deserve better friends that respect you and treat you right.


  • You replied to my “existential crisis” comment with so much compassion although you’re in a much tougher situation, and I wanted to start by saying thank you for caring so much about others even when you’re in dire needs yourself. You are a true comrade, and I am feeling better just knowing you are out there.

    I think you’re doing anything you possibly can, you’re asking for help, and you know the UKs systems better than I do, so I don’t have any advice. I wish I had money to spare to help you truly, and not just for another meal or just so making rent (I barely have enough to get by). I wish there was more an individual person could do to help you, but as you well know, collective action gets the goods. I’m praying for a revolution for all of us, to finally get rid off this dehumanized exploitation you (and everyone else) are being exposed to. I’m angry for all of us, and I don’t want you to die bc of money. Neither now, nor in the future.

    I’m sending you unconditional love and camaraderie, and I wish I had more to give. Please, stay with us for as long as you can, comrade.









  • No, it does not sound like you’re making it about yourself. Thank you for telling me how you relate to what I wrote, and I’m glad that at least the discovery of your application history made your parents stop. I only doubt that my family will see it this way, since there’s no “papertrail” for online applications. I hope they’ll at least stop asking about it once I get any job.

    I will try to do that, as best as I can. Thank you again for your kind words, and might I add, the pillow is a good alternative if no friends are at hand.