Fuck. There’s layers to this that I, again, didn’t think of before I read these comments. Yeah, forbidding any scrutiny could also be bad.

Before knee-jerk “let people enjoy things” chants, I want to stress that not all fun that partygoes seek at parties is necessarily mutually consenting, or even directed toward conscious people.

(CW: SV, emotional and mental abuse)

https://www.vanityfair.com/news/2018/01/brotopia-silicon-valley-secretive-orgiastic-inner-sanctum