• Sabata@ani.social
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        5 months ago

        I’m not welcomed in the realms of the sun, besides everyone out there is a dick.

      • jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works
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        There was an era in home building, decades ago, when overhead lighting in living rooms wasn’t really a thing. They had table and floor lamps. That was good enough. Some fucker along the way thought he was being smart by adding an overhead light in the living room.

        • BubbleMonkey@slrpnk.net
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          That fucker must have lived in my house with his shitty ideas.

          I have a plethora of overhead lighting options that just makes you go “fucking why, though???”. Seriously the place is ancient and used to have gas lamps and a coal chute, so all retrofit, most rooms have two light switch panels with 4-8 switches - the tiny bathroom has 8 switches on 3 panels ffs, but kitchen and living room have -5 panels each- for the overhead lights. Fucking absurd. (And don’t even ask about my breaker box… absolute nightmare. Since stuff is wired into whatever they felt like, the master bedroom shorts out the kitchen 🫠)

          I really want to get someone in to rewire… remove all that crap.

          • afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world
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            5 months ago

            My house was built in the 19th century. We have a shortage of closet space. I assume that clothing was much more expensive back in the day so they had less of it.

    • The Picard Maneuver@lemmy.worldOP
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      5 months ago

      A lot of ND folks have some specific sensory issue that overstimulates them, and overhead lights are a common visual one. (A common auditory one might be ambient noise like traffic, and a tactile one might be the feeling of certain fabrics on their skin).

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        5 months ago

        ooh my tactile icks would be silk-y textures and microfiber cloth. In addition to soap and lotions so I try to be efficient with it before I can’t stand the feeling

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      5 months ago

      It’s very common for autistic people to feel uncomfortable in artificial overhead lighting. Natural light from windows, lamps, or no light at all is often preferred.

      • Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de
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        5 months ago

        i just fucking detest certain kinds of light sources no matter where they are, i think so long as it’s got proper good CRI and isn’t clinically blue i’m fine with it.

        i actually recently got some extra bright bulbs for my room because i’m sick of walking outside and feeling like a vampire, indoors needs to be brighter so my eyes learn to use the pupils.

    • afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world
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      Many people on the spectrum go through life with speakers blasting in their ears, wearing steel wool for clothing, and staring at the light output of a small sun. Additionally picking up on tiny flickers in sound and light.

      So if your entire day is your senses screaming at you when you get home you kinda want dim lights and less noise.

      I assume the image here is someone teasing a friend playing up a preference as a kryptonite-like substance.