For example, I’m a white Jewish guy but I’ve adopted the Japanese practice of keeping dedicated house slippers at the front door.

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    This seems unnecessarily pedantic given the harmlessness of cross-cultural pollination but I’ll take the question in good faith.

    Obviously all cultural practices are necessarily adopted from individuals, groups, and other cultures. What I mean is that some cultures have practices that differ from the ones that are commonplace in the ones you may have grown up in or currently live within. I’m asking about those practices, the ones that aren’t necessarily homegrown or common in your own life.

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      So the culture one grew up in one’s “own” culture. Reasonable definition.

      I grew up in Illinois. My mother made stollen each Christmas because she had encountered it in Germany as a traveling 20-something and she kept it.

      It’s not my culture as an American, but as a member of my family it is my culture. This kind of thing is why I ask.

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        If you wanted to participate in the discussion with a less abrasive nature, you could share that story from your mother’s perspeyand how it became your own personal culture.

        However, I would consider it not to be your culture, but a family tradition. Your culture is more rooted in community than just your own family in my opinion.

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          I think if you open your mind a little you may discover someone challenging your beliefs can be helpful to a conversation.

          That’s part of the culture I grew up in: arguing and challenging each other as part of talking. Feel free to try it out or adopt it.

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            You know I understand you. That was the way with me too. It took me a long time into adulthood to tone that down as I wasn’t making friends and people seemed to think I was an asshole. It really sucked cause I seriously didn’t mean any harm or disrespect, but most took it that way for some reason.

            Now, after endless questioning of myself, I’ve learned to adapt to my audience.

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              I have a really hard time with it because it seems so non-spontaneous. What even is the point of discussing things without disagreement?

              I see these conversations that are just people agreeing with each other and I just don’t get it. I don’t want to be a part of it.

              But I don’t want to be alone.

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                Err, I don’t see a point in disagreeing for the sake of it - I have a similar problem to you though. I get awkward or silent when I don’t have anything original, new or even interesting to say, like you are uncomfortable with ‘agreement’.

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            Persuasion works best when you work off commonalities rather than differences. Though I understand you’re trying to go for combative argumentation.