• MyDarkestTimeline01@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 days ago

    I would say I did. I did treat her well, and acted like person should treat their partner but the reason I was dating her is because she was easy. Not because I saw any sort of future with her. It’s a reprehensible reason if you ask me, and she ended up falling head over heels for me. When I broke it off she didn’t handle it well. She broke into my house to crawl into bed with me.

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      4 hours ago

      Hmm I see. Well, don’t let me tell you how to feel about your experiences. But I think wanting sex is a completely valid reason to enter into a relationship, as long as you’re up front about it. It sounds like maybe you could have been more open about what you wanted in the relationship. To me that’s a much healthier lesson than pursuing sex is bad.

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        3 hours ago

        Oh, I wasn’t meaning to imply that wanting sex was the issue. It was that I was using a relationship as means to that end. It felt scummy at the time and looking back on it I view it as having used her.