Sex.
Ooof I’m an asshole for this one, but admittedly this was high school so forgive my childhood self.
I had been flirting with two girls (openly, nothing behind anyone’s back) and knew that both wanted me to ask them to homecoming, but definitely preferred one (we’ll call her the brunette). But when one of my friends mentioned he was thinking about asking the other girl, the blonde, to homecoming, I didn’t like the idea of having one of my options taken from me without my input so I asked the blonde out to homecoming instead.
We went on a couple of dates after that but it was clear there wasn’t really anything more there so we called it off. In the meantime my friend went back to his ex (a bad move for him) and the brunette I actually really liked was furious I didn’t ask her to homecoming and was basically done with me forever after that.
So yeah, bad move on my part all around.
I had been told that he had a huge cumshot by a friend of his ex. Was not disappointed.
I knew she was easy and I was 19 and still a virgin. I was/am not proud of that fact.
Why not? Did you approach the relationship dishonestly or something?
I would say I did. I did treat her well, and acted like person should treat their partner but the reason I was dating her is because she was easy. Not because I saw any sort of future with her. It’s a reprehensible reason if you ask me, and she ended up falling head over heels for me. When I broke it off she didn’t handle it well. She broke into my house to crawl into bed with me.
Hmm I see. Well, don’t let me tell you how to feel about your experiences. But I think wanting sex is a completely valid reason to enter into a relationship, as long as you’re up front about it. It sounds like maybe you could have been more open about what you wanted in the relationship. To me that’s a much healthier lesson than pursuing sex is bad.
Oh, I wasn’t meaning to imply that wanting sex was the issue. It was that I was using a relationship as means to that end. It felt scummy at the time and looking back on it I view it as having used her.
Because my friend told me he came more than anything shes ever seen, she wasn’t wrong.
Because they were attractive?
A friend of mine told me that she has the greatest tits he has ever seen or felt and I had to at least try to get there
Because he dressed like a girl
Because we met on a dating app, hit it off and talked a lot. She was really cool.
I guess I don’t go on spontaneous dates lol
