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I used to think being trans was some kind of horrible curse but the more I lean into it, I don’t just love the idea of it more, I love myself more. Life would have definitely been easier if I was born cis (of either gender) but I don’t think I could have the perspective I do if I never thought about gender the way I can now.
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Yes!! If I was cis I probably would never have explored my gender at all and missed a whole dimension to life. Being around genderqueer people is also so nice
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yeah my opinion on it ranges anywhere from “god this sucks” to “okay, actually I kind of like having a broad chest”. No matter how bad my opinion on it gets at any given moment, I don’t think I’ve ever truly felt I was in the “wrong” body. Some women are trans. This has always been true and always will, and I’m one of them
I really wish I could get pregnant
I really wish I could sound like a cis girl
I wish I didn’t have the broad chest and long arms of someone who didn’t go through T puberty
but at the end of the day, I cannot say that any divine mistakes were made made. Venus made her daughter exactly as she was supposed to be
You can sound like a cis girl btw. You just gotta send it. By send it, I mean use your best shot at a full femm voice at all times, especially when just talking to yourself at home. The first few weeks will be the most embarrassing shit ever but also the most liberating shit you’ve ever felt. Then after like 3 months of full sending it and rolling with the embarrassment, you’ll just start passing, just like that.
Absolutely. I didn’t always feel the same, but I really appreciate being trans now. If I had the choice to reincarnate and choose how I come back, I think I’d want to be trans again.