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  • wraekscadu@vargar.orgto196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Equality rule
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    1 hour ago

    Yeah, the “feminism has gone too far” dudes I’ve interacted with always have an argument along the lines of:

    “Suicide rates are higher among men, men have lower life expectancies, men always have to be tough and provide even when they suffer. Even then, we (men) don’t complain.”

    In my experience, everyone recognizes that the patriarchy that sadly still exists is harmful. But despite this, instead of collaborating to eliminate it, there’s always a “men vs women”, or “straights vs gays” and so on. It’s so illogical and brain-dead, but it still does.


  • The fact that you’re “in school trying to get a doctorate” shows that you definitely aren’t unintelligent. Possibly less intelligent than your peers (who are already likely more intelligent than society on average), but very likely not unintelligent. So physiologically, I (who’s not a doctor) doubt this is an issue.

    Maybe you’re THINKING that you’re dumb? Going through an irrational, emotions caused condition that does not originate from a lack of intelligence, but rather specific environmental conditions?

    Talk to a mental health professional friend… Not random folks here.

    UNLESS, you’ve seen a sudden decline in intelligence, where your cognition has become an issue when it wasn’t before. That could be physiological, so go see a doctor asap.










  • wraekscadu@vargar.orgtoAutism@lemmy.world•On rules
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    1 month ago

    Yea whatever, fuck them. I always hated school because of this. I completely understand teachers’ plight and all that stuff. It’s hard to manage 60 kids n stuff (we had 60 kids per class in the country I grew up in), but still… Treating children like thoughtless, desireless, subhuman entities is one of the greatest tragedies occurring that society is highly blind to.


  • wraekscadu@vargar.orgtoAutism@lemmy.world•On rules
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    1 month ago

    An expectation to follow rules without an acceptable explanation, when the rule follower has not given consent previously to the rule maker to expect this is authoritarian behavior. Fuck authoritarian behavior and fuck authoritarians. I can’t see how this is just a “oooh they’re just autistic” thing ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯





    • Building your own transit lines on a map. I do it on the website called metrodreamin sometimes. Very fun!
    • Writing policy docs/bylaws/rules for literally anything. Can be a country, a city, a coop, some fictional entity, anything! Completely free. When I actually write stuff, it helps me understand my own beliefs and opinions much more clearly. Bad opinions become a lot easier to spot when you write them out. Stretching these “rules” to their logical extremes is so fun too! Helps you understand holes in your opinions/limitations. I remember writing down my ethical framework. So fun!
    • Programming. It’s free. You can play around n do whatever.
    • Reading porn. Written porn vs audio-visual porn is such a massive massive difference. Written porn often has something that audio visual porn doesn’t - emotions. Also, the setup for written stories is so much cooler than audio visual stuff.