prole [any, any]

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Cake day: December 15th, 2024

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  • I mean, I think I explained my position pretty clearly if you read both of my comments. I don’t have a problem with male nudity (or any nudity), I just know that many people use their own nudity as a weapon against others (in countries where it is taboo). I know this because I’ve seen them do it with my own eyes, I’ve had them do it to me, I’ve heard them brag about it, etc.

    Simply because it is appropriate in a given setting doesn’t mean people cannot have ill intentions. A space where it is expected sounds like the perfect place to do it without consequences. But seriously, if you have never known a male to show their genitals to others intentionally in a locker room then you just aren’t paying attention or you’ve never been in a men’s locker room.

    I’m also obviously not saying every single man or even most of them are doing this. I very clearly said it’s just non-zero. You’re welcome to disagree, but suggesting that I’m projecting and telling me how I feel is not welcome. I literally even said it’s coming from a puritanical place, I can’t figure out why you’d even suggest this.










  • The API changes were the main reason I finally bailed on reddit. I do not like their site/app and they killed my favorite third party app. I only find myself using reddit when Hexbear posts about something. Bailing on reddit was great for me, way too many rightwingers there and even the left subs are basically just radlibs mad at communists for being right all the time (db0 feels like a clone of the reddit left)








  • The only friends I’ve ever had that felt genuine are also neurodivergent. I moved away from everyone and don’t really have friends in person anymore, but I highly recommend trying to suss out some autistic and/or ADHD folks. Not that it always pans out, plenty of us suck too, but the odds seem way better because it’ll be easier for them to give you room to fuck up socially.

    The person you’ve been dealing with probably is trying to control the group. They likely feel threatened by you, especially if there isn’t another woman in the group. Lots of people think everyone acts the same way they do, so if she’s controlling then she thinks you’re gonna try to take control from her because that’s what she would do.

    Anyway, I hope you keep trying to find friends and have more luck in the future. You’re definitely not alone in these experiences, but there is still hope. I’m over 40 and have been through it over and over, but I found a couple of people along the way that made it worth the struggle.


  • Got curious how they managed this. I hadn’t looked into pal action much, but it turns out there’s a dude named Fergie Chambers who is rich af (like 100s of millions) in the background paying legal fees and such.

    I’m so torn between admiring him and being disappointed that he’s not doing more to build a vanguard (but maybe he is idk). Either way, being that wealthy and not being a capitalist piece of shit about it is impressive.

    Edit: y’all think he’d pay my rent if I do agitprop full-time?