🇨🇦🇩🇪🇨🇳张殿李🇨🇳🇩🇪🇨🇦

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Cake day: November 14th, 2023

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  • Back when I still did Christmas at all, I converted first to a religion that didn’t have Christmas. It did have, however, a 4-5 day festival of approximately equal importance in the spring. I made sure all my family, friends, and colleagues know that I wouldn’t be celebrating a Christian festival, but that I would be giving gifts in March. Then I’d look at what I got for Christmas and did some cynical calculations.

    For each person who gave me a gift, I decided if I wanted to lessen the relationship, keep the relationship as-is, or deepen the relationship. I’d then pick a gift of lesser, equal, or greater value (roughly speaking) and give that response gift in March. The only difference? I’d get them all for a song and a dance in the inevitable post-Christmas bankruptcy sales.

    So the best time to get Christmas presents is after Christmas. January and February is when businesses get very desperate (to the point of dissolution for many) and prices drop like concussed bees.











  • Joining with the other sex and reproduction is literally the main purpose of all living beings…

    This reductive view doesn’t help you and, indeed, probably hurts your chances of getting what you so desperately want.

    Drop this focus on sex and, ironically, you’ll have a better chance of having it. We can generally tell when a guy wants us only for orificial insertion; that’s a bigger turn-off than almost anything.

    As others have said (that you didn’t bother to respond to) work on yourself before you start working on getting others. And in your case I would strongly recommend getting professional evaluation for possible clinical depression before it literally kills you.







  • The kit I got was the most expensive of that particular vendor’s starter kit family and it cost me about 105RMB (15USD). It comes with everything in this picture—original left, (bad) translation right. (Click through to see full size with readable translation.)

    It’s not a top-quality kit, obviously, at that price. A top-quality set of chisels alone would be more than five times the price of that whole set, but for beginners it’s absolutely fine. The weird rubber stamps are basically a way of getting an image onto your stone for practice. Anything that’s not red after you do your impression is to be carved down. I don’t want to have to learn carving while I’m learning Chinese calligraphy, so that’s a bonus. Loads of these kinds of rubber stamps are available for both direct use and for practising seal carving, and practice-grade stones are about 0.25USD each. (High quality chop stones can exceed $20 for the size range displayed here and can exceed $600 for the more esoteric stone types in larger sizes.)

    And if I decide I enjoy the hobby, I’ll upgrade the components over time.