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Cake day: July 29th, 2023

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    1. I’ve done and enjoyed stuff I think most people haven’t, and a slap is still faster than a kiss and none of my fantasies are about plain sex, but I enjoy plain sex every day, and counting down I think that:

    10 is people who want something that will kill them or someone else.

    9 is people who want something that would land them in jail, or literal fetishists who get off on something that doesn’t include what most of us think of as sex, and only that.

    8 is people who need something other than plain sex or can enjoy things that most of us find too gross

    7 is people who identify mostly as their kink but can enjoy sex without it

    Which would leave me at 6. I think way more people are in the 1-5 group than the 6-10 group, it’s not an even distribution. If you are asking where I’d land in the general population of women, that would probably be a different answer.




  • I do think the other focused sex is possible (I get this with my husband because I don’t have to worry, it is balanced, I get back what I give) but likely not as much fun to watch - for me personally the power play stuff M/f does get me the quickest response, doesn’t even have to be explicitly sexual. Just the mismatch in physical attractiveness between the men and women is jarring enough to undo that response. Gay male porn has good looking guys and plenty of rough stuff but I don’t watch enough of any of it to know any names.

    That Venus, while she is not my niche, I do think plenty of guys (at least those I know) do still focus so much on T&A that they often don’t care much what is between them somehow, or actively prefer plush built women.
















  • Hmm, in written erotica I can enjoy more masochistic stuff than I can enjoy in real life (I do enjoy some but too much will pull me out of the moment) but in videos pretty much enjoy what I do like, or have liked.

    Like Schimitar also said - I do also enjoy younger people in video, they are attractive on screen but not IRL, not even in looks do I find them sexually attractive, only good looking guys close to my age do that for me (though that ‘close to’ bubble is certainly wider than it was, it’s still not very big).