Shrug, it was more funny to me than anything after a while. That said, this person is directly responsible for a large part of this shitstorm so I don’t want the fact that I was fucking around to obscure my disdain for them. REgon didn’t deserve to catch and keep that ban after arguing with this shithead for a hundred comments.

Yeahhhhh…same. Think I’ll actually log off this time, too much weird shit happening.

It may be, this stuff is definitely not indicative of the hexbear day-to-day; I think that the return of a “celebrity” poster (for what niche forum e-celebrity is worth), the American election, and the discourse about the tanks, happened to coalesce into the perfect storm. You’ve been around a while though, you probably have a good idea of the current culture and whether or not it’s worth it for you to stick around through this silliness.

Personally, the mod drama convinced me to just eat the ban amidst all this noise and dip. I never really had any personal connections or friendships with hexbear users (that didn’t already happen to be friends elsewhere anyway), and I wasn’t some “notable”. It wasn’t worth the drama and stress arguing about hurt feelings and transphobia caused by mod squabbles.

Now I feel kinda bad for airing old hexbear semi-drama. Really didn’t mean for anyone to try to make a point with it, just wanted to state my own experience :\

Appreciate the honesty Nako. Wouldn’t have expected you to fly off the handle but you know you better than I do. The whole thing is really just kinda silly and very regrettable.

Hey, appreciate the answer! Spose I’ll just block em then lol, didn’t realize that federation worked that way.

IDK if I’d wish that on anyone right now lol

Odd, that is. They’re comments on my end. Starting here https://lemmygrad.ml/post/6206836/5484003

I can say I was not expecting to get harassed across two sites lol

They are here in the thread trying to start shit with me rn 🤷

My apologies then.

Whoever this mystery wrecker is, they’ve returned again. Like a hydra, for every acct felled, two alts shall take its place.

Honestly, great response. I’m certainly confused and annoyed about all this and would probably handle it worse.

I aired my complaints about TC69 and her fans here but don’t get it twisted, the posts weren’t mandatory. The original issue I mentioned was a misunderstanding resulting in a dogpile of a cool person who didn’t deserve it, and the causes are not unlike what occurred in this most recent struggle session.

I think it was my comment, and no it was not a joke. You can kinda see the results of this…idk following? Reputation? here in this thread. I don’t know why a not insignificant amount of hexbears seem to believe TC69 is beyond reproach. Legit all the people I saw arguing with her and getting banned were upset about the apparent transphobia in the mod team.

It really was moving… I feel like I should have more to say

Embrace sincerity forever

My main takeaway was that I still find pervasive irony just…so…tiring. My main concern was with the misgendering of people and weird accusations. People were upset, and I was concerned. I feel like I missed the humor (which isn’t unlikely I suppose, I miss jokes all the time) when all these bits started to pop off. Just felt mocked for caring by the people who were supposedly famous for caring for their comrades. This is why we reject irony and embrace sincerity

Yeahhhhhh wth

Right, but as in this exact situation, no matter how long a person was a known poster with no such opinions, horrible shit got leveled at them when they crossed the clique culture. I can understand why someone would think it’s concern trolling, but again: known trans, autistic user asking a question. Transparent discussion is what was needed 4 years ago and not all that rabid shit, and here we see it repeated with the same culture today.