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Cake day: July 11th, 2020
  • Spahija@lemmygrad.mltochapotraphouse@hexbear.net•Story's of dudes who were creeps to women you guys know?English
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    2 days ago

    My father was a pervert towards my sisters, not only saying questionable sexual-related things but also on multiple occasions having very questionable physical contact with them (mostly this past year, though they have since told us that this sort of thing had happened earlier too on infrequent occasions, including when they were very young (they are still underage)). I don’t know the full details of this (I am unaware, for example, if anything happened that could be considered rape), and I was only aware of this after our mother became aware of it too, but we have cut contact with him when this came to light earlier this year; and given how deep a hole he’s dug for himself financially speaking (which also escalated to a breaking point this year) in the years following my parents’ separation, I don’t doubt that he is having the shitty time he deserves. I guess a slightly amusing thing in retrospect (in the fucked up way that any bit of this could even attempt being amusing) is that I remember him saying many years ago that when he was younger he considered becoming a catholic priest (which I always found strange since he isn’t religious, at least he wasn’t in the time I’ve been alive).

  • Spahija@lemmygrad.mltomemes@hexbear.net•adult autism realityEnglish
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    12 days ago

    Meanwhile my last psychiatrist was like “Yes you do show many symptoms of ASD, but I do not believe in the usefulness of the medical criteria of the DSM-5 [proceeds to speak about Freud for 5 minutes]”; from what I’ve heard Freud is still a massive problem for psychiatry in my country (France).

  • Spahija@lemmygrad.mltoAsk Lemmygrad@lemmygrad.ml•How and where did you make your close friends?
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    23 days ago

    I guess I have three main groups of friends depending on where I’ve met them: at school, uni, or my local conservatoire (I guess friends from the Party count but I’m not really close with any of them yet). Although I’m less close to my friends from uni mostly because I don’t see them outside of uni (but I’d still say I have at least one close friend there), and have grown less close to my friends from school because we don’t get to see each other too often, so I guess my friends from the conservatoire are by defaut my closest since I see them multiple times a week every week, both at the conservatoire and elsewhere.

  • Spahija@lemmygrad.mltochapotraphouse@hexbear.net•STOP POSTING ABOUT THE ELECTIONEnglish
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    25 days ago

    I fucking looked at a trashcan and said “THAT’S A BIT SPD”

    Most amazing sentence I’ve ever read. Anyways at least for me the EU elections have been an excuse to lecture my family members about how much of a hypocrite and a shitty human being Glucksmann is. Also for some reason my town has only now started to have posters that are not from either the communist party (why does the PCF have to be so watered-down uuugghhhh) or LFI, which I find funny given how right wing our mayor is…

  • Spahija@lemmygrad.mltogames@hexbear.net•This map from the new EU5 dev diary is making me feel thingsEnglish
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    1 month ago

    Seeing a lot of people disliking EU4 in this thread meanwhile it’s my most played game on Steam by an amazingly wide margin… I guess I didn’t play any of the other EU games so I can’t really compare them (something something no investigation no right to speak), but I know I really enjoy EU4 (and I do way more than HOI4 or other Paradox games I’ve played; though I haven’t played CK and have just gotten into Vicky). Anyways, I hope EU5 will be good and not an unfinished game with beautiful maps.