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Cake day: June 16th, 2023

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  • Exactly this. On Reddit, you would end up with stuff like r/TrueStarWars and such as a result of bad mods moderating badly — but those communities would have a harder time taking off due to the name being less searchable, and individuals needing to be “in the know” about why one sub has “true” out the front.

    With everyone being able to take the same community name, just across different instances, there’s a potential for a better, more competitive process to take place instead. It won’t be perfect — @starwars is going to be in a much more immediately advantaged position than, say, @starwars — but in theory the playing field is closer to being level.








  • I fail to see what the pillar provides over just having a bunch of plants in a wire rack or shelves, beyond automating the act of watering – which there are already better ways to do anyway, ones that don’t involve having a bizarre, potentially-maintenance-heavy solution like what the pillar presents… or you could just water your plants by hand.

    As such, this pillar feels like an entirely unnecessary thing. They’ve reinvented shelves, with watering. Loud shelves, because that contraption must make noise. They’re not even good shelves. I’ll just take regular shelves, thanks, and a watering can.


  • If the answer is “I am cis” or “I am trans”, what is the question?

    The question would, to be blunt, be “are you cis or trans?”, because “cis” and “trans” are just shorthand for “cisgender” and “transgender”.

    It’s a question of very limited scope – even if you were to reword it – because in modern society, the exact detail of if someone is cis or trans isn’t really practically important. If someone is a man, say, society cares a lot more about them being a man rather than being a cisgender man or a transgender man. (I’d say the same about women, but there’s obviously a subset of society that is in the process of demonising trans women, so…)

    I think the core issue you’ve found is that cis/trans-ness is something that only makes sense in the context of something else, the gender identity of the person in question.


  • NTA. Your agent should have waited, or clarified, or even just communicated in any way, in order to continue inspecting the property. And even if it’s such a huge problem that they missed one room, it’s within their capacity as a functioning adult to come back another day to make sure the room isn’t somehow in a terrible condition that isn’t already reflected by the rest of the property.

    But they’re not the asshole either. Your housemate is, assuming they’re stressing you out about this and making you worried that you’re going to make him homeless. It sounds like his housing is a source of anxiety for him, but he shouldn’t be putting that on you.