I even thought to myself before hand “he’s not east asian I’m not east asian it’s gonna be weird if I do this” but habits die hard even if they’re quickly learned

  • Lussy [any, hy/hym]@hexbear.netEnglish
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    6 days ago

    If they’re just tossing it while your hand is outstretched, it’s disrespectful and outright aggressive.

    So respond to them in kind: waste their fucking time as much as possible, since you can’t actually throw hands or verbally harass or spit on their face (I’m assuming you’re at work). Drag the interaction out as much as you can, make them feel as uncomfortable and inconvenienced as possible. And at the end when they just leave, passively aggressively, in a kind voice, call them out in ways that aren’t so explicit.