• kernelle@lemmy.world
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      7 months ago

      That’s the thing, it will work 100% guaranteed. As long as you’re open to new friendships. Will the first person fall in love with you? Probably not. The second? Also probably not. That’s the beauty of it, you’ll either have an SO or a ton of friends, and having a friend of the opposite gender is like wingman paradise.

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        7 months ago

        No it won’t. I tried that for 30 years with no success.

        For some people, if you don’t put in effort you will not get any of those things.

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          It will, maintaining friendships and especially new ones requires a lot of effort. I’m saying when you meet people you don’t think they’ll be your SO, but rather a new friend. That’s now an entirely different conversation, one which has a much more relaxed nature, increasing the chances of a potential relationship.

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          7 months ago

          You’re missing the point by like a mile, you have to be open to new ones. Relationships don’t just appear out of nowhere.