lidd1ejimmy@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · edit-25 months agoAny tips on dealing with people that don't like you?message-squaremessage-square39fedilinkarrow-up177arrow-down14
arrow-up173arrow-down1message-squareAny tips on dealing with people that don't like you?lidd1ejimmy@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · edit-25 months agomessage-square39fedilink
minus-squareBronzie@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up45arrow-down3·5 months agoDo they dislike me for no good reason? If yes: fuck them, I’m awesome! Do they dislike me because I did something dumb? Let’s talk and let me appologise if I cocked something up for you. My intentions are rarely malicius. This let’s me live a happy life knowing I didn’t ruin anyone’s day and ignore the rest.
minus-squarelidd1ejimmy@lemmy.mlOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up8·edit-25 months agoAgreed. Because of my kind nature it isn’t very often that people dislike me or have a problem with me. When they do it’s always the same story for 99% of other people. So they just don’t get along with anyone. Can’t people please them all…
minus-squareelfpielinkfedilinkarrow-up2·5 months agoHave you considered that you’re a people pleaser? Being kind and nice is good, but do you do that in detriment of yourself? Can you say no to favors?
Do they dislike me for no good reason? If yes: fuck them, I’m awesome!
Do they dislike me because I did something dumb? Let’s talk and let me appologise if I cocked something up for you. My intentions are rarely malicius.
This let’s me live a happy life knowing I didn’t ruin anyone’s day and ignore the rest.
Agreed.
Because of my kind nature it isn’t very often that people dislike me or have a problem with me.
When they do it’s always the same story for 99% of other people. So they just don’t get along with anyone. Can’t people please them all…
Have you considered that you’re a people pleaser? Being kind and nice is good, but do you do that in detriment of yourself? Can you say no to favors?