How much time have you spent being single?

If you’re currently single: is it by choice or circumstance?

Do you / did you enjoy single life?

What are / were the pros and cons?

Is / was partnership a goal of yours?

If you’re currently not single: Did your goals change after getting into a relationship?

What are the pros and cons?

  • ApostleO@startrek.website
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    2 months ago

    Confidence? Not so much. But it’s less a fear of rejection, and more a fear of upsetting someone.

    In short, my thought process goes like this:

    • Approaching women can make them uncomfortable.
    • I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable.
    • Therefore, I don’t approach women.

    I basically limit myself to online dating, but as we all know, that’s a shit show unless you’re in the top 10% on the scale of attractiveness. And so I’ve been single 10+ years.