• thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org
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    8 months ago

    When I was young, I wanted to think of women in a way that I could look beyond typical attractiveness. I made a point to find something about everyone. It soon became apparent that everyone is beautiful in a way. Sometimes it’s not a facial feature but there’s always something. And I started to find a lot of women sexy even if I wasn’t really sexually attracted to them. As life has gone on, it’s been interesting to me how someone that might not be very pretty becomes hot as all be because of their talent or skills.

    I always thought I was ugly but women always found me attractive. It was a hard thing to accept.

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      8 months ago

      Interesting, is it possible to find oneself ugly while being loved? Maybe I am narcissistic in that I don’t find myself that ugly, but many women do.