I presume you’re young, since you talk about being groomed. I hate this culture just as much as you do. To be completely honest, I may be MORE exposed to it because I work at a sex shop. Since I pass except for key features that chasers like, the presumption is that I’m a sex object.

I don’t even give them the time of day, and I think that helps. I’m willing to do sex work and the like, but not if the first two things you say to me are “can I fuck you though” and when I say no “can I suck your dick”. I am a person, and a woman, and I deserve respect before you treat me like meat.

Find a place that has more women on average. I have found they will give you respect men would never, including gender affirmation. I worked with a pretty conservative but hangs out with the gays boomer lady and she had no issues gendering me properly and was very protective of me even though I “have man strength” 😭

Tbh I think you just have to not post on places that chasers will troll, like femboy subs on Reddit. Reddit is a shithole, and you might do better to find a heavily moderated discord.

I’m sorry you’re also experiencing this. I know that it makes me feel like an object in a sickening and unenjoyable way.