Probably not the best subr… SubLemmy(?) to ask this question. It’s important right now to be sensitive for our disenfranchised homies.
Without looking at your previous posts I’m giving the benefit of the doubt that you didn’t mean anything negative by it. So hear me when I tell you that saying things that could even just “possibly” be misinterpreted as something negative will absolutely be taken personally. The past hundred+ years have been completely fucking horrendous for gay people, so until we go back to freely fucking and sucking anyone without judgement, the people who are used to being oppressed for said fucking and sucking are going to be a little sensitive when you say something that might be misinterpreted into you thinking they should be oppressed.
Probably not the best subr… SubLemmy(?) to ask this question. It’s important right now to be sensitive for our disenfranchised homies.
Without looking at your previous posts I’m giving the benefit of the doubt that you didn’t mean anything negative by it. So hear me when I tell you that saying things that could even just “possibly” be misinterpreted as something negative will absolutely be taken personally. The past hundred+ years have been completely fucking horrendous for gay people, so until we go back to freely fucking and sucking anyone without judgement, the people who are used to being oppressed for said fucking and sucking are going to be a little sensitive when you say something that might be misinterpreted into you thinking they should be oppressed.
Tl/dr
It wasn’t for you.
Point taken, thanks. I’m actually gay and was genuinely curious.
What a curve ball