• Thief_of_Crows [none/use name]@hexbear.net
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    11 months ago

    I mean, I’m not at all homophobic, but I still don’t want to date them. The answer to “why don’t women want to sleep with me?” Is certainly not “idk, try sleeping with dudes?”

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      11 months ago

      That’s not the point I was trying to make. The point I’m trying to make is that a lot of straight women don’t want to date bisexual men, even in a monogamous relationship situation.

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          11 months ago
          just further explanation, warning for biphobia

          Yeah there’s a lot of weird/hateful stuff that gets said about how bisexual people are more likely to cheat, are icky because they have sex with the same gender/sex, are carriers of STDs, are sexual deviants, are actually gay in denial and will leave you for someone of the same gender/sex, etc. It can negatively affect dating if you want a serious relationship.