I wasn’t asking a particular gender. I was asking people in general. I don’t wear band shirts so I was curious what those who did had experienced. I’ve never witnessed it even when I was younger and band shirts were practically the dress code. The original screenshot isn’t even gendered so I’m not sure where this hostility is coming from.
The only gendered part about it was “especially as a young woman” which implies that either men or women could be asked that question. Unless something has changed recently and only women can wear band shirts now. But whatever, I’m sorry my post offended you. I didn’t intend for it to be dismissive towards women.
I wasn’t asking a particular gender. I was asking people in general. I don’t wear band shirts so I was curious what those who did had experienced. I’ve never witnessed it even when I was younger and band shirts were practically the dress code. The original screenshot isn’t even gendered so I’m not sure where this hostility is coming from.
The screenshot is gendered and was posted in the witchesvspatriarchy community.
The only gendered part about it was “especially as a young woman” which implies that either men or women could be asked that question. Unless something has changed recently and only women can wear band shirts now. But whatever, I’m sorry my post offended you. I didn’t intend for it to be dismissive towards women.