After discussing this with the people most often using the mutual aid community and feedback here we will be making a single change.
Meta posts will no longer be permitted in !mutual_aid@hexbear.net critical meta posts must not be about specific users and posted in !feedback@hexbear.net at risk of removal.
We will change the mutual aid sidebar to remove the clause permitting meta posts, we will also ask that users post once a day so that everyone’s post’s can be seen but this is not a hard rule as it is pretty clear that removing posts is a last resort in that community. This joins the other community recommendations that users include currency, how much is needed, updating when a user has received funds, or updating/locking the post when the need has been met.
This will be unfeatured in about 12 hours
~~Hello users of hexbear:
Due to recent meta posts in our mutual aid community we wanted to open up discussion about the community !mutual_aid@hexbear.net
We will never require explanation or justification from a user asking for aid in the community, and the mod and admin team continue to commit to not featuring an individual’s mutual aid request to prevent unfair exposure.
In addition, we will maintain a strict “No critical comments or meta comments” on a mutual aid post.
This post is to discuss the mutual aid community’s rule of allowing meta posts: mutual aid as a community, those making posts in it and those commenting on posts.
We are considering removing the exception allowing meta posts but wanted to involve the userbase before committing to a change.
Please comment with any thoughts, feelings, or suggestions regarding this change.
Thank you~~
It doesn’t really feel like the mutual aid is very mutual. And alot of the people posting consistently on mutual aid don’t really seem to post or interact outside of the comm. I don’t really know too much about the situation but that’s just my two cents. Not sure if the comm is accomplishing what it set out to do.
Donations are anonymous, so you don’t know who is giving aid. I have helped people who have helped me before and vice versa, can’t really say who without making that help non-anonymous but we definitely help each other on that comm. Not everybody uses the comm right, but many of us give when we can and ask when we need.
Edit: I’ll add there’s a chance I lose my insurance this year because of a specific mutual aid action I took last year. There’s someone on here that’s donated a substantial amount to me over the years and we play video games and chat for hours sometimes (if they’re reading this, want you to know I just don’t have access to my Matrix right now, not ignoring you, I really miss our chats). I’ve made some really good relationships with people over that comm.