Around 10:45 on the morning of Feb. 25, Lee Goguen asked her father if he had any last requests.

The death that was coming to 70-year-old Gerald Goguen was the death he had chosen weeks in advance and his wife of 41 years had chosen to go with him.

Diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2008, Gerald’s health had started to deteriorate sharply in the months leading up to Christmas. Coby Goguen, 62, also had cancer that had spread and eaten into her bones. Both were racked with pain and wanted out.

Lee said she wanted to see her parents relieved of their suffering and was grateful they had the option to end their lives on their own terms.

  • OhVenus_Baby@lemmy.ml
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    5 days ago

    Easy to say that till the time comes. Don’t spread negativity its contagious.

    Also just because your American doesn’t mean your life and how you choose to live are simply thrown away like trash some things will be out of your control but you can still focus on what you can control to improve. Don’t let negativity consume you all I’m saying.

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      4 days ago

      Speak for yourself.

      If I am old and ill and facing economic destitution due to likely being bankrupted by the American healthcare system, I’m ending it.