This is actually actor Jerry Messing, who played Pugsley Addams in the movie “Addams Family Values.”

The famous shot is from a photoshoot he did in an attempt to revitalize his acting career, inspired by Blues Brothers.

Iirc he doesn’t care for the meme, but he’s chill about it.

Iirc he’s a pretty down-to-earth dude and probably not an incel.