I don’t know, but this comment from @Hermes@hexbear.net has given me some stuff to think about.
People should not think less of you on the base of the amount of sex you have, and you shouldn’t either.
This is a nice thought, but insults based on amount of sex are absurdly common. I have seen quite a few people on this site who still do these insults, and it doesn’t get removed when I report it. The incel article from a while go was about how we should critique incels for their misogyny rather than them failing to have sex, I see this as pretty similar to the arguments about not body-shaming fascists in that most of the people who will get hit by the insult are not the actual target. From what I remember, that article good job explaining why these insults are harmful and how they hurt a lot of people who they really shouldn’t, unfortunately the discussion on that post was very off topic. In my experience, most people who have sex fail to recognize that not everyone who is celibate is an incel (“If so many terrible people have sex and you can’t, that must mean you are worse than they are!”).
I would say that insults based on amount of sex a person has should not be allowed, but I am very pessimistic about this actually leading to a change in site culture.
Once again, please assume good faith, even if you disagree with the take. If you think I mean something weirdly reactionairy by this post, ask me wether that is what I mean, instead of just saying that’s what I mean please.
I don’t want this to become a strugglesession, I just feel like this would be a good discussion to have. If this does become hostile, then please lock/remove it mods.
I completely disagree. It’s used in a lot of technical and scientific circumstances. Such as describing Earth not as a sphere, but as an oblate spheroid.
There’s other terms on the wordfilter list that I have issues with, such as d=ge=erate, for the same reason. “D=ge=erate matter” is a very specific term in physics used to describe a type of matter commonly found in extremely dense objects like white dwarfs and neutron stars.
I didn’t think ”in a derogative way” needed to be specified because people could figure it out from the context, but maybe it should’ve been. Obviously I’m not asking for *oid to be added to the slur filter, just that using ableist terms ending in -oid shouldn’t be allowed.