• Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    77·
    3 days ago

    For anybody having difficulty reading the text:

    Anti Acknowledgements

    There have unfortunately also been people who have been less than helpful in my journey here. I wanted to acknowledge those too, because I know I am not unique in this experience.

    No thank you to the physics study association that made me sing songs about how women couldn’t study physics without sleeping with the professor, the day I stepped into university life. No thank you to the 5th year physics student that decided to assign me a ‘stripper name’ within the first minute of meeting me in the physics coffee corner in my first year. No thank you to the technician that was responsible for onboarding me on the use of the cluster in my third year who raised his eyebrows and asked me if that meant I was some sort of “computer girl”. No thank you to the senior researcher that sent me utterly inappropriate texts after a conference, then proceeded to ‘apologise’ months later by telling me they had not been meant for me anyway so “no hard feelings remain hopefully”. And no thank you to him for attending every conference I’ve been to since. No thank you to the people who told me that it was “surprising” that I was doing a PhD since I was a girl. No thank you to the man who mistook me for a coffee lady at a conference, and after having to correct him two times that I did not work there, responded with “you should consider it”. No thank you to the researcher that asked me what I was wearing underneath my outfit during a conference. No thank you to the physicist who declared to a room full of other physicists that biologists “don’t know how to design an experiment”. No thank you to the people who have called me scary instead of strong and intimidating instead of intelligent. And finally, no thank you to the executive board of the TU Delft, whose knee-jerk reaction to being held up to a mirror about the social safety at the university, was to sue the party holding up the mirror instead of looking at the problems they highlighted.

    I wish I could tell you this has all made me stronger somehow but in reality it has only shattered my confidence. You have made me feel like I do not belong in science and I cannot forgive you for that.

    -Rachel

  • fuck_you_spez@lemmy.worldEnglish
    10·
    2 days ago

    Hero.

    I love everything about how she’s calling out the culture in her realm of academia and casting it in Stone by being the first pages of her book.

    Sucks it all happened. But proud to have it justly put on blast.

  • Seeker of Carcosa@feddit.ukEnglish
    54·
    3 days ago

    Bravo to the exceptional bravery on display here. I’m sure the majority of PhD graduates, including myself, wish they’d had the gumption to name and shame the suppressing factors contributing to a toxic academic environment. Reading this makes me kind of appreciative that my troubles were only administrative mismanagement and an inexperienced supervisor.

    Also what the hell is up with TU Delft? It’s only partway through March and this is the second time this year that I’ve seen a PhD candidate publicly call out the institute.

  • PerogiBoi@lemmy.caEnglish
    32·
    3 days ago

    This sounds like the University of Ottawa. Watching physics professors sexually harass the few women in our class was disgusting.

  • NotLemming@lemm.eeEnglish
    118·
    3 days ago

    Normalise this. In the past women would have been accused of being unprofessional to have called men out like this. That’s the only reason why every woman doesn’t do it.

  • Blazingtransfem98@discuss.onlineEnglish
    762·
    3 days ago

    Fuck these misogynistic pigs, idiots like these need to be called out more often. It’s too bad she couldn’t give names out and completely humiliate and ruin them.

    • flora_explora@beehaw.orgEnglish
      11·
      1 day ago

      While I agree with the first part of what you said, I don’t think the longterm solution is to call out individuals and make their lives horrible. It sure is a good way to maybe deter a few people from doing those misogynistic things. But what we need is actual structural change. It shouldn’t be possible these people to do such things in the first place without being sanctioned. And we should educate people more on feminism and intersectional struggles in general.

      • Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.deEnglish
        2·
        23 hours ago

        counterpoint: many people fundamentally need to be shamed if they’re being shitheads, or they will never improve. The important part is just that they also need to be given a clear way to redeem themselves.

        Naming and shaming is part of the structural change.

    • AidsKitty@lemmy.worldEnglish
      622·
      3 days ago

      Only if the accusations are true. It is just a post on the internet, there is no proof any of this is true or factual. Don’t be in such a hurry to harm others and damage their lives.

      • SybilVane@lemmy.caEnglish
        391·
        3 days ago

        As a woman, and having known many other women, I can promise you that none of what is mentioned is particularly far fetched. It’s sad, but we all have multiple stories like this. Almost any woman could put together a similar paragraph of incidents she has personally experienced.

        Edit to add: she didn’t even name anyone! No one is harmed, except the people who know they should be ashamed of themselves.

        • froh42@lemmy.worldEnglish
          24·
          3 days ago

          As a man I’d have never believed how common such behavior is. I’d have thought that’s really outlandish.

          Now I’ve gone through the (probably stereotypical) process of a guy having a daughter, she’s an adult now.

          What she told me - no, all this stuff isn’t unusual at all. The first time she was afraid (and called me as she already had a phone of her own) she was not even 10 years old, riding her bike from my place to the ex-wife’s place, teenage boys catcalling her.

          There’s a lot of us men around who find it hard to believe, because it doesn’t happen to US. But it does. Frequently.

          • SybilVane@lemmy.caEnglish
            1·
            24 hours ago

            It’s worth noting too that for every instance of feeling scared, there are at least 5 situations where women feel belittled. I think even well meaning men are a lot less aware of it happening, or of them doing it themselves. My own father is a sweetheart who means well, but he’s skeptical of anything I tell him until my husband repeats what I’m saying. I’ve had achievements minimized because I didn’t also raise a family while doing them. I’ve been denied entry into hobbies. I’ve been given fewer opportunities at work because they want a cute face at the front desk. I’ve been told math is not for me, while being the only middle schooler in the math team who could regularly beat high schoolers at competitions. I’ve been told no boys would ever want to be my friend, because boys can only be after one thing, so all the ones being friendly are faking it. And of courses I’ve had boys stop being my friend when it becomes clear that friendship is all I’m after.

            It’s harder to spot but cuts to your self worth like these add up over time.

          • DavesNotHere@lemm.eeEnglish
            9·
            2 days ago

            It’s not happening to us, but it’s happening all around us and we choose not to see it. Once my own daughter began talking to me about her experiences and pointing out men’s problematic behavior in public, I can no longer not see it.

          • Snowclone@lemmy.worldEnglish
            7·
            3 days ago

            I know it never happened around me personally, I’m tall and mean looking, but working in service for over a decade and most people don’t know how bad it is. You learn that the restraining order needs to happen BEFORE it gets worse not as it gets worse. And none of that protects workers traveling to work. You can’t let anyone walk alone to their car alone after close, and if a guy comes in and asks for an associate with those creep vibes, and they aren’t known to the associate or a part of their private life in anyway, you need to aggressively fight it. On visit two looking for her, you have to pull her behind closed doors and report to the police he’s stalking and get a restraining order. SECOND VISIT. Anything less and you’re letting to go way to far.

      • BradleyUffner@lemmy.worldEnglish
        11·
        3 days ago

        As the husband of a woman with a PhD, let me assure you that I have witnessed several of these first hand when I travel with her to conferences.

  • ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    1021·
    4 days ago

    Shoutout to the physicists dismissing biologist experiment design as a whole instead of across sexual or gendered lines.

    • AdrianTheFrog@lemmy.worldEnglish
      7·
      3 days ago

      My mom is a biologist and complains how physicists always come into biology, try to reinvent everything without looking at any prior work, and then fail to execute their (sometimes interesting, sometimes not) method

    • ayyy@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
      46·
      4 days ago

      I read that as the subtext still being sexist because Biology tends to have more women in the field compared to Physics.

      • Nikelui@lemmy.worldEnglish
        21·
        3 days ago

        Nah, it’s typical university faction wars. Engineers say crap about architects, mathematicians sneer on physicists and so on…

        • prole@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
          13·
          3 days ago

          Engineers say crap about architects

          As an engineer, this shit is so cringe… There is a youtube gaming channel with an alleged engineer who plays video games (often related to physics or building things), and his entire fucking personality is formed around mocking architects for being “stupid.” He literally substitutes in the word “architect” instead of calling someone stupid. He say’s “they’re an architect.”

          Grow the fuck up goddamn. How insecure do you have to be?

          • Liberal_Ghost@lemmy.zipEnglish
            6·
            3 days ago

            I’m a heavy equipment mechanic, and every day in the shop I hear other guys complaining about how an engineer fucked up a design on a piece of equipment and that’s why it failed. Or that the engineer made it hard to work on on purpose. So cringe. I just roll my eyes at them and tell them if they are so smart then why aren’t they the ones designing the equipment lol

            Its sad that all the fields feel the need to shit 9n each other. We as a society would got a lot further if we could all get along 😁

        • mortemtyrannis@lemmy.mlEnglish
          12·
          3 days ago

          How people can walk out of a university with degrees and not understand how all areas of knowledge contribute towards each other and link together in ways that are not immediately obvious astounds me.

          • GoofSchmoofer@lemmy.worldEnglish
            4·
            3 days ago

            because of a long established undercurrent of competition within departments (and even between professors) for recognition and advancement. That and there are some people that have very large but very fragile egos that can’t allow another person or discipline to grab more sunlight than them.

        • sem@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
          3·
          3 days ago

          I heard a joke once that a physical chemistry experiment will have 1000 data points per trend line; I organic chemistry will have 10 data points, and biochem will have 2 data points.

          I bet to biochemists it’s very insulting. Back to the comment in the anti-acknowledgements, that was insulting without even being funny.

          I like the ones that are symmetrical, like math thinks that physics is easy, and physics things that math is too unreal (I don’t remember the jokes)

          • emergencyfood@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
            6·
            3 days ago

            a physical chemistry experiment will have 1000 data points per trend line; I organic chemistry will have 10 data points, and biochem will have 2 data points.

            There is an element of truth in this, but that one biochem datapoint probably took more money and (wo)manpower than a hundred phys chem datapoints. Which is sad, because biological systems are usually more complex, and therefore more ‘noisy’, needing more datapoints for a definitive result. Medical studies get a lot of datapoints for obvious reasons, and because they can afford to do it thanks to Merck et al.

    • GrumpyDuckling@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
      175·
      4 days ago

      I don’t really understand how that one was a problem if they’re also a physicist, or even if they’re a biologist. Nothing wrong with some fun rivalry.

      • Tar_Alcaran@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
        361·
        4 days ago

        There’s always rivalry between physicist and biologists. Or chemists and biologists. Or biologists and biologists. Damn biologists, they ruined biology!

      • toddestan@lemm.eeEnglish
        4·
        3 days ago

        When I was at college us physicists would joke about the biologists and the chemists and the mathematicians and the engineers, and in turn they’d joke about us, and we’d all have a good laugh over it.

        I suppose it would come down to the context and how it was said.

  • Echolynx@lemmy.zipEnglish
    74·
    3 days ago

    I appreciate her telling it like it is and not bowing to a pressure to please.

    Found an article speaking more about it, if anyone is curious about the context/her work.