Melonius [he/him]

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Cake day: July 24th, 2023

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  • This is a great video that compresses a lot of complex ideas into a single hour. It’s pretty easy to get people to understand capitalism creates so much suffering and ecological damage. Then those same people seem incapable of digesting the contradictions in imperialism and resort to saying this is the best system we have, criticize AES, gillions killed by communism, it can’t work because my narrow world view is reality. Venting a little bit it’s frustrating that these people want marvel brained solutions to complex situations, or aren’t interested in a solution at all and are just practicing their tactics for the next reich debate club

    Also loved the dunking on zizek

















  • I’ve been reading along and haven’t been discussing because I feel pretty shocked with how relatable the whole book has been. I also attribute my reluctance with some amount of imposter syndrome. It’s very strange realizing all these things so late in life.

    This chapter I did want to comment about special interests and how denying children their special interests can be harmful. I have kids and one of them has one. Maybe it’s just a temporary interest but we go along with it and pull up videos about it or play pretend with it. His grandmother however says it’s “weird” and pretends she doesn’t have the item in the house (she does) and doesn’t let him play with it. This made me angry at first but reading this chapter convinced me to be furious.

    For myself I feel foolish. At work I would do so many things differently than everyone else - and I thought it was because I worked “smarter”. I used to literally pride myself in my ability to mirror other people in conversation and get along with anyone. Which is horrifying to me because I realize I almost never present my real self to so many people.

    I also assumed this was true of everyone. That everyone has these challenges and has to navigate conversations playing the same routines I was taught that don’t really make sense. When I am told neurotypicals want these kinds of interactions I am still doubtful, but maybe I should be more kind to myself and recognize that some interactions are particularly challenging for me compared to other people.

    I’m really glad I started reading this. I’ll take better notes for chapter 6